February 22, 2014

20 things we should say more

I watched this video today and I loved it!

I really truly do believe that the things we say matter.  I know that no one is perfect, but I also know that words can truly turn someone's day around.

I was walking home from class one day last semester.  It was 9 am and I was so sleepy and grumpy.  I had forgotten to do an important part of the prep for the lesson and I wanted to go home and sleep.  I was walking with my head down just looking at my feet. I looked up for a brief moment and a girl who was walking toward campus passed me with a smile, looked right at me and said

"Good morning!"

In that moment I felt better.  I'm not sure if it was the happy look on her face or the kind word she gave me, but I decided not to be grumpy anymore.  I made an effort to smile at people I was passing on campus.  I want to be as kind as that girl was who's kind word helped my day turn around.

20 things I want to say more often:


  1. You are a gem
  2. Can I pray for you?
  3. Tell me about your day (and be interested)
  4. *smile*
  5. I'm proud of you
  6. Can I give you a hug?
  7. Oh my gracious you are wonderful
  8. I made a *cookie would you like one? (*bake more and share more)
  9. You are loved
  10. You are important
  11. I hope you know you mean a lot
  12. You look lovely today
  13. Can I do anything to help?  (and follow through)
  14. I'm sorry
  15. Do you want to play just dance?
  16. I will try to do better
  17. *laugh at happy things*
  18. Thank you for your smile
  19. You  are awesome
  20. Good Morning
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what do you think we should say more often?
comment below!

February 20, 2014

my valentine

This is Brantley.  He is my valentine.  

I found this picture today and it just made me remember why I love him
That sounds goofy but let me explain.
His smile in this picture. I love his smile
His Hawaiian shirt, I love that he loved his mission 
His uke. I love that he tries new things

I cannot express how in love with this guy I am. 
He is everything that I have ever wanted in a companion. 
He is kind, he is caring and he makes me laugh harder than anyone I have ever met.  
He makes me better
He strengthens me
He loves the Lord
He is my everything  

I love him for everything he is and everything he does. 

Brantley I can't wait for April 17th! Thank you for being my best friend! 
I love you!

February 13, 2014

so...it's been a while

wow guys. I stink at blogging, sorry about that

I HAVE JUST BEEN SO BUSY.

Wedding planing is rough stuff, but I love it all the same.  Here is an update on Brantley and Claire:

We went to Subway yesterday.
I got grilled chicken
B. got a yummy pizza

we love food.




We picked out B's tie and suit two days ago! It was exciting because finding the right color tie has been a nightmare. 

Tonight we are going to a Valentine's Dance I am sooo excited :) I love having a valentine.

I will try to be less lame with my posts.